You can t have authentic leadership without this one crucial thing

Similar documents
Recognizing Leadership Blind Spots

The slightest perception of something negative happening can affect an employee s emotional state.

TEAM ALIGNMENT TRUST INSIDE. report. assessments. for Team Name January 30, 2010

Managing people through change

22/09/2017. Managing Up. Welcome. Masterclass Outcomes. Masterclass Series. Timing Attendance sheet Resources

Employee Engagement Hierarchy

Trust, the Foundation of a Functional Team

Turning Feedback Into Change

25 TIPS. from. TOP CEOs

ebooklet How to improve your CV and interview technique using your Belbin Team Role Report

A summary of the principles from The Speed of Trust Book:

Introducing Best Companies People Manager s Conversation Guide

Uncovering Leadership Blind Spots

Safety Meeting. Meeting Leader Instructions. Safety, Teamwork & Our Customer s 1 st Choice

GUIDE. A Modern Communicator s Guide to Corporate Communications

Effective Performance Evaluations

Page 1. Reddico Manifesto. Reddico, Moat Farm Oast, Five Oak Green, Tonbridge, Kent TN12 6RR

ENGAGED EMPLOYEES OWNERSHIP

XpertHR Podcast. Original XpertHR podcast: 25 January 2018

The nine keys to achieving growth through innovation By Dr Amantha Imber

America s Workforce: A revealing account of what employees really think about today s workplace

[Insert Date] Leadership & Management Skills. Business Training Skills. Teambuilding Skills

Monitoring individual performance

Chapter 1 COPYRIGHTED MATERIAL. Why the Golden Circle? When you are good to others, you are best to yourself. Benjamin Franklin ( )

When you are leading at a higher level, the development of people is of equal importance to performance. by Ken Blanchard

The 10 Important Things To Be and Do

FOUNDER OWNED BUSINESSES

[Insert Date] Teambuilding Skills. Leadership & Management Skills. Business Training Skills

Millennials are crowdsourcingyouhow companies and brands have the chance to do

Workshop Title Workshop Focus Program Category and Audience Modules

Safety starts with you. DOF Group Offshore Safety Booklet

Ethics and Financial Reporting: Delivering on the Commitment

Title: Social Intelligence and Leadership

The best Paralegal interview questions you ve not been asking

Facilitator s Guide Overview

Mentoring. Program Guide

30 Course Bundle: Year 1. Vado Course Bundle. Year 1

A Just Love Guide to Succession & Handover

Workshop: Hiring & Managing a Team

Caring and Continuous Learning. Building a Culture of Leadership Within Your Organization

BETTER TEAMS. BETTER RESULTS.

5 top questions for finding the best construction accounting software BY FOUNDATION SOFTWARE

Making a start on engagement with the Engagement Bridge. Workshop Pack 1.3

Transcript of the interview with Sonja Vartiala, executive director of Finnwatch, Finland.

Supervising for Employee Engagement

creating a culture of employee engagement

Communicate for Success

The Leadership Secret of Gregory Goose

6 Managing performance

TEAM EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE SURVEY REPORT

Dear IKEA friends, November Peter, Jonas and Mathias Kamprad. Inter IKEA Systems B.V IKEA key values

The rules of engagement. Your digital guide to boosting employee engagement.

7 Interview Questions You Need to be Asking

Introduction... CONTENT

END DATE Study Timetable

Stepping Forward Together: Creating Trust and Commitment in the Workplace

2012 Color Code International 145 W. Crystal Ave. Salt Lake City, UT MOTIVE

Linda Carrington, Wessex Commercial Solutions

Starting a Safety Conversation. Why they re important and how to have them.

CRACKING THE CODE TO CHANGE. What every leader needs to know about the obstacles to overcoming change

Business Result Advanced

Toolkit. The Core Characteristics of a Great Place to Work Supporting Framework and Tools. Author: Duncan Brodie

TURNING FEEDBACK INTO CHANGE

Welcome to Assertiveness in a Gentle Way

CREATING OUR BEST SELVES THROUGH STRENGTHS AND WELLBEING

Top Social Media Policy Tips

Leadership During Challenging Times by Mark David

Inspiring Others to Lead. Wayne Guthrie Chief Human Resources Officer, UW Madison

The Marriott Management Philosophy

Society Time for Change

You might ask: why would I want to build trust anyway? Employees are here to do their job, full stop. What does it matter if they trust me or not?

NIHR CLAHRC for Northwest London

6 SAFETY CULTURE ESSENTIALS

The Coaching Playbook. Your Must-Have Game Plan for Maximizing Employee Performance

steps for brand clarity + authenticity mezzanine.co transformation application of brand expression expression expression expression expression

How do I know if I am a good Change Agent? By Melanie Franklin, Director, Agile Change Management Limited

ConvergenceCoaching, LLC

Impactful 1:1 Meetings

Belbin Report How to leverage the potential of virtual teams with Belbin

ITSM Leadership: You Don t Need To Be In Charge To Get Results

Getting Engaged - What is Employee Engagement and Why Does it Matter?

TEAM EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE SURVEY REPORT

Preface: About This Study Guide Pre-Test: Test Your Knowledge I. Introduction: Constructive Disagreement vs. Destructive Conflict

Managing and Motivating

Putting our behaviours into practice

The E-Myth Revisited Why Most Small Businesses Don t Work And What to Do About It

Changing a culture with lean management

1 P a g e MAKING IT STICK. A guide to embedding evaluation

The Meaningful Hospitality Smart Hiring Guide

Results. Actions. Beliefs. Experiences

Making CRM work. Whatever, CRM tools are rated very poorly for customer satisfaction among executives of medium and large sized organisations.

Supervisor Core - Module 2 - Leadership in the Child Welfare System. Ohio Child Welfare Training Program,

10. The Law of Connection Leaders Touch a Heart Before They Ask for a Hand

Overcoming a win-lose mindset after a merger. by Dr. Larry Senn

Managers at Bryant University

Creating Your Value Proposition

New Leadership Expectations for 2016 Connect Then Lead

Human Resources National Coaching Service Navigate your Guide to Consultant Recruitment. Coaching A resource for you.

Managing Change. By Ann McDonald. to the success of a business. Companies most likely to be successful in making change work to their

3 Components to High-Performing Healthcare Facilities: Data, Communication & Engagement

Transcription:

You can t have authentic leadership without this one crucial thing Everyone's looking for authentic leadership. Authentic leaders are effective, self aware and inspiring. They behave in a way that engenders trust, defend their people, challenge the status quo and take ownership and responsibility for mistakes. They don t attempt to emulate other leaders, but find their own path since, as Dr Meredith Belbin says: Individuals do not make good carbon copies of one another but only pale shadows whenever they attempt to imitate. 1 Once that leader is in situ, living those leadership behaviours and values every day, everything else falls into place. Managers are more engaged and the effect trickles down through the company, boosting profits, wellbeing and every other feel-good factor under the sun. So why is it so difficult to find? With fewer than 1 in 6 employees engaged at work, it s no secret that leadership has a huge role to play in that figure. The Wall Street Journal reports that about half of employees surveyed had left a job to get away from their manager. 2

Authenticity is about much more than just being yourself. So where is it all going wrong? Let's take a step back and re examine what we mean, because... Authenticity is about much more than just being yourself. Being yourself requires very little effort it doesn t need much preparation. But authenticity is something quite different something you have to work for. It s active, a choice it means being committed to learning about yourself and making changes to the way you think and behave, based on what you find. It comes from taking the time to get to know yourself. With the best of intentions, leaders can be focused on direction and vision, rather than getting to grips with matters closer to home. As a leader, perhaps you don't consider you have time for navel gazing. But it's a false economy. Understandingyourlensontheworldisaleadershipdutyyouowetoeveryonewho follows you, because it influences what you say and do, often without you realising it. As Anaïs Nin famously said: We don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are. The data only tells us one thing... We know leaders need to get to get to know themselves before they can have a chance of improving relationships and building engaged, high performing teams. And that their failure to do so materially damages businesses. IBM's 2014 study suggested that many leaders overestimated how well they were connecting with their staff. The recommendation? Introspection is hard and sometimes painful but all leaders need an honest assessment of their own strengths and weaknesses. 3

Leaders, it s about connecting with those around you. Leaders, it s about connecting with those around you. To be authentic is to be the same person to others as you are to yourself. In part that entails paying attention to what others think of you, particularly people whose opinions you esteem and who will be candid in their feedback. Harvard Business Review, The Focused Leader, December 2013 There s no point reflecting in a vacuum. Self reporting personality tests can reflect your own world view back at you, but this isn't good enough. If you want to be authentic, you need to grow. That means learning from others asking others what they think, and being prepared to hear the truth. Asaleader,itcanbedifficulttounderstandwherethingsaregoingwrong,andwhat others want from you, but it s a crucial learning opportunity. By asking for Team Role feedback, you can encourage employees to articulate an honest assessment of your strengths and weaknesses in leadership, in a safe, constructive framework. Are you communicating well with senior managers, but failing to reach team leaders? Is there a clash between your leadership style and the organizational culture at large? It s about acting on what you discover and taking it to every level of your organization. Onceyou rearmedwithknowledge,itallcomesdowntowhatyoudowithit.it snot enough for a few departments to toy with the idea, says Harvard Business Review. 4 Leaders need to make the development of a strengths based culture a strategic priority.

The most useful contribution someone can make is an authentic one. But there s more. Real honesty and transparency means talking about weaknesses. We know that focusing on strengths increases engagement, so why talk about weakness? Because authenticity means addressing weakness in yourself and others. How honest can any relationship be if you're only talking about the good and not the bad? Bill George, the creator of the authentic leadership fielded criticism that leaders are often locked into a rigid sense of themselves, much like their immature teenage selves, saying: This is the antithesis of authentic leaders [ ] They don t hide behind their flaws; instead, they seek to understand them. 5 Dr Belbin tells us that, in Belbin terms, the most useful contribution someone can make is an authentic one: That means discovering your best Team Role and then acting in a way that makes it easy for others to understand what to expect from you. Some people model themselves as a paragon of virtue. While sounding fine, is that person fully credible? Team Roles have both typical strengths and allowable weaknesses. Weaknesses become allowable only where the associated strength makes a recognised and valued contribution. Someone claiming no weaknesses becomes suspect. That person may equally have no strengths. There s little point in taking ownership for individual mistakes if you don t acknowledge the fault line underneath. That you re more capable at some things than others, and that you might need support from colleagues to cover the gaps. You re stronger if you know where those fault lines are, and how you re going to tackle them. So are your people.

Weakness is not a dirty word. When you can truly understand how others experience your behavior, without defending or judging, you then have the ability to produce a breakthrough in your leadership and team. Everything starts with your self-awareness. You cannot take charge without taking accountability, and you cannot take accountability without understanding how you avoid it. Loretta Malandro, Fearless Leadership: How To Overcome Behavioral Blind Spots and Transform Your Organization You see, weakness is not a dirty word. It s how we use the concept that counts. Competencies make the assumption that one person has to be able to do everything to a required standard, so in a competency based culture, discussing shortcomings is tantamount to a character assassination, which will surely demotivate and disengage. But when addressed effectively, it can be a path to authenticity. It's being able to focus your efforts and work to your strengths, to multiply engagement levels. It s keeping responsibility for the rest, too valuing the skills others have and collaborating to get the best result for everyone. Did you know? 99% of customers we surveyed agreed or strongly agreed that Belbin increased individuals self understanding. 87% of our accredited customers make use of Observer Assessments (Team Role feedback from colleagues). 52% of them use Belbin with senior management and 29%, at CEO or executive level, because they trust Belbin to tell the truth at every level of the organization.

You can focus exclusively on strengths, or you can be truly authentic. Weaknesses don t turn into strengths. The research shows that weaknesses never develop into strengths, while strengths have the potential to develop indefinitely. The advice is not to ignore weaknesses, but to minimize weaknesses and maximize strengths. And if weaknesses are a learning opportunity for leaders, it s no different for those you lead. If you admit weakness in yourself, denying it in others for fear of hurting feelings or causing offence, is dishonest. It's inauthentic. At Belbin, we ve always said that it s okay not to be all things to all people. We ve always said that with strengths come associated weaknesses they re part of the package. We address weaknesses sensitively and constructively, but we do insist on bringing them into the conversation, because we know they have the power to make or break individual and team success. When it comes to yourself and those around you, you can focus exclusively on strengths, or you can be truly authentic. But you can't do both. A bit about our authors: With 11 years at Belbin and an MPhil in English from the University of Cambridge under her belt, Victoria heads up the Research & Development team. On the research side, her role includes writing articles, web content and literature reviews, and commissioning and overseeing research projects. On the development side, Victoria oversees the design, development and maintenance of the Belbin web application and report delivery system, and project manages the development of new products. We keep her busy. At 91, Dr Meredith Belbin keeps an active interest In house in all options our R&Davailable here atfor Belbin 4 or more and is always ready with an opinion, thought or idea (or several).

References. 1 Team Roles at Work, Dr R. Meredith Belbin, 1993 2 https://blogs.wsj.com/atwork/2015/04/02/what do workers want from the boss/ 3 Myths, exaggerations and uncomfortable truths: The real story behind Millennials in the workplace, IBM, 2014 4 Developing Employees Strengths Boosts Sales, Profit, and Engagement, Harvard Business Review, September 2016 5 The Truth About Authentic Leaders,, Bill George, Harvard Business School Working Knowledge, July 2016 Belbin Team Roles is the language of teams, enabling individuals to be able to project and talk about their behavioural strengths in a productive, safe andnon confrontational way. By using Belbin, individuals have a greater self understanding of their strengths, which leads to more effective communication between colleagues and managers. Great teams can be put together, existing teams can be understood and improved, and everyone can feel that they are making a difference in the workplace. Contact us to discuss how we can help you, your teams and organisation. This document remains the copyright of Belbin UKIn house and mayoptions not be available reproduced for 4 or inmore any format, without the express written permission of Belbin UK. BELBIN 2017. All rights reserved. BELBIN is a registered trademark of BELBIN ASSOCIATES, Contact UK. Jill Cooper (jill@belbin.com) for more